orgasmicalmedicine
orgasmicalmedicine:

This is more true than you know!
Ladies - if you go into a relationship thinking he’ll change if you do xyz, or if you love him enough, you’re in the wrong relationship. You should never be in a space of hoping your partner will change, otherwise you’ve settled for less.
Men - you have to step up and hold your female partner accountable so she doesn’t change. There’s a pattern that women fall into where they change after they get married. They take their foot off the brake pedal and relax into complacency because they now have you and think everything is good. If you don’t want your partner to change from the person she showed you while dating, you have to grow some balls and be the unwavering, challenging, hold-you-accountable kind of man she really needs. (i.e. the bad boy women talk about)

orgasmicalmedicine:

This is more true than you know!

Ladies - if you go into a relationship thinking he’ll change if you do xyz, or if you love him enough, you’re in the wrong relationship. You should never be in a space of hoping your partner will change, otherwise you’ve settled for less.

Men - you have to step up and hold your female partner accountable so she doesn’t change. There’s a pattern that women fall into where they change after they get married. They take their foot off the brake pedal and relax into complacency because they now have you and think everything is good. If you don’t want your partner to change from the person she showed you while dating, you have to grow some balls and be the unwavering, challenging, hold-you-accountable kind of man she really needs. (i.e. the bad boy women talk about)

iwriteaboutfeminism

blackfemalepresident:

daily reminder that

- if a man makes you feel uncomfortable. dont feel obligated to giggle it off. leave. without a single word if you want

- you dont owe men your kindness or time

- no man is entitled to you just because he was nice to you

Gender is a touchy subject these days. We are constantly policing each other’s gender expression into two polar concepts, instead of accepting the idea of gender based on a continuum. While this website does not mention asexuality, it is still perfectly okay to identify as such. I hope no one feels left out, so please feel free to message me if there is something missing. Love to you all!